I wanted to write a post that would serve as a starting point for men wishing to begin exploring their role in regards to sexual violence. Though none of the following is truly gender specific, I wrote it thinking of the few men who have reached out to me asking how they can support and what they can do to learn more.

It all begins with an idea.

An open letter, to you. I’m writing this under the assumption that you remain oblivious as to why the way you behaved is considered inappropriate. I am choosing to believe that perhaps you have been too busy to read any articles about the #metoo movement, notably its impact and resonance within our own Toronto dance community

In February 2016, I experienced a series of instances of sexual harassment with a Toronto choreographer. In the fall of 2017, when the Harvey Weinstein scandal broke & the #metoo movement swelled in earnest, my whole world shifted & I saw my experience in a new light.